Okcuupid is so that your settings of who can see you will always be honored. You have a lot to compete with and who knows what the other doed intentions are. My rule is if you message me first, you better be able to keep it going. This will do the same thing. Kind of look at it as, "If green dot and no response, mark him off your list", "If red dot and no response, mark him as a maybe". Be excited you got a response, but now get to know them.
In fact, I sent literally hundreds of messages. It is the unofficial rule of rejection. It's a deeply ingrained cultural, and perhaps biological, norm that men make proposals and the women evaluate them. A male hell: a hell of silence. None of them led to a relationship.
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If I message first, I send a face pic and I have plenty on hand to send. As for the dot thing, you might take a different spin on it.
We do not tell someone that you have blocked or unmatched with them- you simply disappear everywhere for them, including any conversations grene may have had with them. However, I link my Instagram to my.
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Cancel 0 The online dating world is rough. I tried earnest profiles, witty profiles, avant-garde profiles that ignored all of the prompts, even a profile that ended with a rambling description of my dream woman, just for kicks.
None of it worked. Say a guy contacts you, you don't think they're a good fit or you're talking to someone else, or for whatever reason you ignore him.
This does not mean that the site is "better" for wbat than for men, relative to any other form of heterosexual courtship. I sometimes have people respond to my message a week later.
There was a problem submitting your feedback. You can be selective to who you send nudes too. The went on and on, dozens, hundreds, perhaps okcupkd of men exactly like me.
Blocking is reciprocal, so you won't see them anywhere either. This can be turned on in your settings, while setting your orientation.
In an effort to understand what was going wrong, I once did a search on men seeking women in my area. If not for this awesome pic, I would have a face pic.
If I okcpuid you first, I plan on keeping the conversation going. Doesn't mean I still wouldn't be interested in you, just that I respect your decision to ignore me.
A good rule of thumb is give someone 24 hours to respond. That is because I am pulling off a one-legged wheel pose in some pretty skimpy underwear.
If you've talked for a gren, I think you deserve a grefn bit more than just a sudden communication stop. For example say you've messaged someone to rearrange a date and you want to make sure they've logged in since you sent it, or say you want to catch them online and want to know the best time, etc. Don't be afraid to send him a message or a reply back.
Instead of getting my undies in a bunch, I just roll with it.
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I put a lot of thought into my user profile. It kills me at least not having a face to put with the name. If you contact a guy with a green dot and he doesn't respond, then there's a very good chance that he's just not interested in you.
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What color is my dot on okcupid?
I work at OkCupid. Also, the percentage of women with red dots is ridiculous compared with the other colors.
Those age and distance settings are not hard filters; you may see or be seen by people who are slightly outside of your preferred age range, or slightly farther away than your preferred distance.